Have you read my description:
I am a 40-something European woman doing what I once thought wasn't possible:
finding happiness after infertility. While it's been a long, difficult and
emotional journey (10 unsuccessful IVF treatments), each day I take another step
down the path toward a fulfilling new life. This is my story of reinvention.
Everything there is true except one thing: I am not 40 yet. I will be in few months. ***
I don't want to hurt anyone who is over 40 and still TTC.... but for me personally, 40 is the limit for having a child.
So I guess this year will be quite hard for me.
***I wrote it like this since I knew it would be painful for me to change it from: almost 40 to 40-something... I like to make things easier.
(((HUGS))) Milestones are tough indeed - some more than others.
ReplyDeleteAnd I understand that it's easier to write 40-something rather than almost 40 he he...
dear Amel, thank you for the hugs.
DeleteHugs to you as well!
I know . . .for me, turning 40 was not the fun milestone of my friends and peers. For me, it was a painful reminder of what I didn't have. Be gentle with yourself during this transition. One day at a time.
ReplyDeleteKelly
http://beso519.blogspot.com/
Dear Kelly,
Deletethank you for your kind words!
In the darkest days of my infertily, few years ago, this was exactly my moto: One day at a time.
I couldn't bare the thought how will I survive the year. But one day at a time - that I could handle.
Hugs!
Hugs to you,Klara:)
ReplyDeleteMilestones is always tough.
Try to do something nice for yourself the next months. Read a book, take some SPA, drink some wine, bought some new clothes, and fallow your motto: One day at a time.