I enjoyed picking mirabelle plums for a friend of mine; I have known her since we were seven. She loves them.
She has an autoimmune disease and has already lost the ability to walk and move her hands.
I visited her yesterday, and we were talking about all the exciting road trips we took together (with two other friends) in our late teens and twenties. She said that all those memories help her get through her long days – she visualises the things we did together.
She often says to me and our other two friends: “Girls, you must walk as much as you can! Walk also for me.”
I have learnt so much from her. And I am grateful that I can, in small ways, brighten her moments and bring a little joy to her days.
I'm so glad that your friend has you, and so sorry for what she's going through. I'm glad too though that you are learning from her, and teaching us too. Those plums are gorgeous - just the sight of them, let alone the taste. It's a reminder how important connection has.
ReplyDeleteI was sure I replied to this. Maybe I'm losing it! lol
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your friend, but I'm very glad she has you to help her through this. I'm also very glad that you are able to learn from her. And those plums!!! Gorgeous! A visual delight, and I'm sure delicious too!
What beautiful colors!
ReplyDeleteI am sorry about your friend's declining health. It must be incredibly hard for her to go through this and for you to witness as well. I am sure she treasures your visits and thoughtful gifts. I am glad you have fun memories that you share.
Walking... something I too often take for granted. I will think of your friend the next time I go outside <3.
Much love from almost autumnal Switzerland