Have you read Lilly's guestpost?
If you haven't, do read it, it is a beautiful post. And do leave a comment... it is so important for someone who has just started thinking writing her own blog. Comments mean to the writer of the blog that her thoughts are heard and that they matter.
I love all the comments that you left (and so did Lilly!!).
What I also loved was this 14-year-old post that Pamela attached in her comment. I don't remember reading it then. Since 14 years ago I was in the middle of IVF treatments and wasn't even thinking that this is actually possible that you end up without a baby (no matter how hard you try).
It is a beautiful post, do read it:
I love Pamela's conclusion of the post: "Finding joy and meaning in life is what I would have wanted my son or daughter to do."